Single Men in the Lifestyle Class

SINGLE MEN IN THE LIFESTYLE

This class is required to attend Risque Soiree events and to continue to have a profile on the website. If you have not completed this class within 2 months of creating a profile, your profile will be deleted. 

Class Description:

The sex-positive lifestyle can be an incredible world of freedom, connection, and unparalleled pleasure. However, for the single man, it can often feel like a locked door with a long line of people waiting to get in. You've heard the stories, seen the listings that say "single men need not apply," and maybe even felt the sting of rejection.

This class is your key.

The Gentleman's Guide is not a pickup site. This is a place to develop community and connections. This is a place for an insightful and respectful roadmap for single men who want to successfully and ethically navigate the sex-positive scene. We will demystify the unwritten rules, decode the community culture, and give you the tools to become the kind of single man that couples and groups are excited to invite back.

This is your opportunity to move from the outside looking in to becoming a respected, desirable, and welcomed part of the lifestyle community.

What You Will Learn:

• Understanding the Vibe: We'll start by exploring the core ethos of the lifestyle: it's about connection and enhancement, not conquest. Learn why couples are in the lifestyle and what they are truly seeking in a single male partner.
• The Unwritten Rulebook: Decode the crucial etiquette that separates the welcome guests from the guys who get ignored. We'll cover everything from approaching a couple at a party to online messaging protocols that actually get responses.
• The Art of Being a Plus-One: Learn how to be an incredible asset to a couple's experience. We'll teach you how to enhance their dynamic, communicate with both partners, and make them feel secure and desired, rather than threatened.
• Creating a Profile: A practical breakdown of what makes a compelling and respectful online dating profile for the lifestyle. We'll cover photos, bios, and what to say (and what not to say) in your first messages.
• Mastering Consent and Rejection: In the lifestyle, "no" is a gift. We'll teach you how to ask for what you want confidently and gracefully, and how to handle rejection with class and dignity, turning it into a positive experience.
• Finding Your Place: A guide to the different venues and platforms—from house parties to clubs and online communities—and how to find the ones that are the right fit for you.

This Class Is An Investment in Yourself:

• The genuinely curious and respectful single man who wants to enter the lifestyle the right way.
• The man who has tried to enter the scene but has felt frustrated or confused by the experience.
• Anyone who wants to understand the lifestyle from the perspective of a couple and the community.
• The man who understands that being a gentleman is the most attractive quality of all.

Pre-registration is required.

Stop wondering what you're doing wrong. It's time to learn the skills, gain the confidence, and earn the respect to become the single man everyone wants to play with.

TYPE OF EVENT: Panel/Class/Workshop

DRESS: Casual

RULES: Do not interrupt speakers. Please raise your hand to speak. Consent is mandatory

PARKING: Please park on the street. 

NO REFUNDS: If you can not attend, we can forward your ticket to a future event.